Sunday, 18 September 2011

Still understanding her

Have you ever wondered why the not so handsome guy gets to keep the very beautiful girl? The handsome guy has put little on no effort to get the girl and because of this he also puts little or no effort in the relationship and so cannot keep the girl. The rich guy has bought her all that money can buy and gives her emotionally empty so she goes out to search for love. 

These women then land with the not so handsome guy with little or no money and is extremely satisfied.

This guy know that he has nothing material to offer and so takes his time to understand the woman to ensure that he can keep her.

This is what he does

  • He always offers a shoulder to cry on. Once she is done talking all he says is everything is going to be OK and she immediately feels better. Most women do not want solutions they just need to vent. This woman will keep running back to this man.
  • He always complements her. Makes her very special for the moment they are together. For that moment he makes her feel very very very special
  • He always find softer ways to give her feedback. He will never put her down. Example Sweetie I want to cut my hair. He knows that it is a horrible idea. He will not say that. His response Babie if you cut your hair i will miss the way you look when .......... The next day she will come in that hairstyle and he will complement her.Crisis averted
  • He is there for her with all her ideas. He is the kind of guy who will have his arms open when she fails and reassure her that next time it will work. Or better yet he will run ahead of her and ensure that all is well there
In short he treats her very well and it costs him nothing.

In return he gets all her love and dedication no matter what.

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