How you ever wondered why your side show seems to flourish and make you happy as compared to your marriage?
The reason is very simple. We put more effort on our side shows as compared to our marriage.
Once we get married we assume that we have conquered all and we stop to put any more effort. We take our partners for granted and we eventually stop to care.
Lets take for example
If you have a side show you would call them every morning and several times during the day just to find out how they are doing. Or sometimes just to tell them sweet nothings. This person will definitely feel very special and in return will reciprocate.
Once you marry your partner the calls stop. Don't you think that this person feels empty? Neglected?
Every so often you buy your sideshow a gift just to make them happy. Give them money for hair or any other item with a smile. Take them out just because they are down. (Without complaining). With your partner when they ask for anything the first thing you do is grumble then say no. When was the last time you took your partner out? Dated them? Did something for them just because? Made them feel special?
Every time you see your side show you complement them. You say something nice and so on. Your partner is human and also needs to hear the same.Oh how it would make them feel special if you told them that you appreciate anything about them.
You apologise to your side show so that they don't leave. You have never apolgised to your partner even when you know that you are wrong.
Marriage can be a lot easier if we put just a little effort. Treated our partners with respect and love. Forgive just a little more; tolerate just some more. Looked the other way sometimes, shouted a lot less, complemented more.
Just because you are married doesn't mean that you cannot continue to date and make your partner feel special.
Try this out : All that effort and time spent on your side show apply it to your partner and see if it makes a difference. Be strong especially if your partner is skeptical at first. Eventually they should warm up.
Just saying!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The reason is very simple. We put more effort on our side shows as compared to our marriage.
Once we get married we assume that we have conquered all and we stop to put any more effort. We take our partners for granted and we eventually stop to care.
Lets take for example
If you have a side show you would call them every morning and several times during the day just to find out how they are doing. Or sometimes just to tell them sweet nothings. This person will definitely feel very special and in return will reciprocate.
Once you marry your partner the calls stop. Don't you think that this person feels empty? Neglected?
Every so often you buy your sideshow a gift just to make them happy. Give them money for hair or any other item with a smile. Take them out just because they are down. (Without complaining). With your partner when they ask for anything the first thing you do is grumble then say no. When was the last time you took your partner out? Dated them? Did something for them just because? Made them feel special?
Every time you see your side show you complement them. You say something nice and so on. Your partner is human and also needs to hear the same.Oh how it would make them feel special if you told them that you appreciate anything about them.
You apologise to your side show so that they don't leave. You have never apolgised to your partner even when you know that you are wrong.
Marriage can be a lot easier if we put just a little effort. Treated our partners with respect and love. Forgive just a little more; tolerate just some more. Looked the other way sometimes, shouted a lot less, complemented more.
Just because you are married doesn't mean that you cannot continue to date and make your partner feel special.
Try this out : All that effort and time spent on your side show apply it to your partner and see if it makes a difference. Be strong especially if your partner is skeptical at first. Eventually they should warm up.
Just saying!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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